Time Stops and Starts Again

21Jul08

I went to Milwaukee this weekend with Jason and Coupon for a bridal shower my sister was having for me. Honestly, I’d prefer that people didn’t make a big fuss about our upcoming wedding, that they didn’t give gifts, and that they knew their love and support was enough. Apparently, people want to make a big fuss, give gifts, and yes, still love and support us as a couple. The shower itself was a nice mix of friends and relatives, great food and conversation, and no lame games of any kind. A few hours in one of my very very best friends whom I haven’t seen in 5+ years arrived. I’m not an emotional person, but seeing her nearly knocked me over. There aren’t words to describe how grateful I am that she came, nor are there words to explain how much it meant to me that she and Jason were able to meet.

I guess the point of this story is that even though people change, migrate, and evolve, certain bonds can withstand long term separation. One of the neat parts of growing up is learning how to really appreciate deep friendships, people who knew you long before you were the person you are today. These friends are gifts, people that remind you of where you came from and how lucky you are to be exactly who and where you are right now. It was a wonderful feeling seeing my friend again – the cherry on top of a perfect evening. Love ya D.

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